For today, though, a time-sensitive question from Rachel:
"I am going to [American region famous for wineries] for an extended Memorial Day weekend family vacation with my in-laws! And, I will be almost 7 weeks pregnant at that time, and don't want to tell them!
My husband and I don't drink, so we are already out of the wine tasting events, but we have reservations for almost every meal (Sunday through Wed morning) at amazing restaurants. Under normal circumstances I would be *very* excited about these restaurants, however for the past week I have been having major food/smell aversions and my diet has consisted of things like plain chicken breast, white rice and mini stoned wheat thin crackers. Don't think I'll be finding these items on the menus of the foodie restaurants in [American region famous for wineries]. I am assuming my morning sickness/aversions will be getting worse before they get better...Another problem is that my in-laws are late eaters, so all of our dinner reservations are at 8pm and I know I'm going to need to eat before then, especially the first day when I will be on east coast time and 8 will be 11pm for me.
We are also all staying in a "family lodge" which has separate bedrooms, but a common living area, so it may be hard to sneak off for naps, go eat on my own, to go throw up, etc.
We may end up having to tell them, but really don't want to tell people quite so early as I haven't even had a prenatal appointment or ultrasound yet (just a confirming blood test).
I thought about faking sick, but my MIL is a nurse, and so any mention of illness will actually bring more attention from her, not less. we don't want the pregnancy to be the focus of the vacation, as the intended purpose of the family vacation is to celebrate my inlaws anniversary and birthdays.
If your readers have any advice I would appreciate it! Would also recommend easily portable snacks that can go through airport security for the plane -- my old standby of a turkey sandwich is out due to the pregnancy ban on deli meats..."
Rats. My old standby, faking sick, is out.Unless... Can your husband fake sick? And you can stay with him to "take care" of him?
My other suggestion is to choose one or two people you would be OK with knowing if you do miscarry, and have them run interference for you.
But you guys are sneaky, too. What do you have for Rachel?