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Lily

Finally! A topic where i have some credibility!

I love your list, Moxie. Let me add:

a) Try to carve out some alone time from your colleagues. You can easily find yourself spending all your waking hours together, and that always leads to something bad, whether its debauchery or developing a strong hatred for the way they sniffle.

b) Locate old friends. One of the only upsides of going to these nice central places like Chicago or SF is to reconnect with someone you haven't seen in a while. This, sadly, rarely applies to Vegas.

c) Develop an alter-ego. And turn it off now and again. Tiffini is the girl I am at the booth. Tiffini is friendly, smiles more than I typically do, and is willing to call out to strangers passing by. She is unafraid of talking to anyone. She also typically doesn't make the snarky comment when someone "asks to speak with her boss, little girl" ... Somehow, turning on Tiffini when i get "on stage" and turning her off during breaks, and after hours, contains the disingenuous experience to a specific spot in my brain. It does sound a bit multiple-personality, but it works (and I'm not nuts- not in that way, at least!)

Now I realize these are all mental health items....

Mom In France

I think these are good guidelines for business travel in general. For myself, I always try to pick a fun place to stay if possible. For instance, I often stay on South Beach if doing business in Miami. I too befriended one of the local coffee shops on frequent trips to Washington DC. I found that the walk to/from was pleasant, and I liked the neighborhood feel over just getting a coffee in the hotel Starbucks.

Since the birth of Boo I travel much less (thankfully I had the choice) though I think I'll be starting up again soon, but sticking closer to home and traveling within Europe and less to the US or other far-flung places.

effective nancy

When I did marketing for a consulting firm, I was put in charge of our presence at several trade shows. The single best tip I can offer in addition to the excellence already offered here is that if you are making the arrangements for your booth (e.g. reserving the space), get double or triple padding under the carpeting for your booth. Your legs will thank you tremendously, and visitors will tend to linger (especially toward the end of the session) without quite knowing why.

Robin

These are great tips. I handle my company's tradeshows and all of these are EXCELLENT tips. One way I like to use the downtime at the tail end of a show is to plan and delegate follow up tasks.

Also I have a short list of nevers:
-never eat in the booth
-never talk on the phone in the booth
-never complain to the attendees about how your feet hurt, you're tired, etc.

Tracy

Ditto the Lots of Water! Not only do you need to be hydrated, you will be talking A LOT.

Have a great opening line. You only have a few seconds to get the client's attention, and only a minute or 2 to get their interest.

Have a fun give away. Something from your product line if possible. Clients will go home with bags full of info. Which packet will they open first? The one with the fun goodie in it.

When you get home, take the hubby and kids out to dinner. My trade shows are local, so I'm home at night, but TIRED. So I just want to crash. But hubby has had the kiddo all day, and he's tired too.

Simone

Wow, it's been a LONG time since I've had to think about this stuff. The nice thing about the consultant work I do is that it doesn't currently involve travel. That said, I know at some point I will again be in a position to use this info. In the meantime, thanks for posting it--everyone has such great ideas! I think it's important to focus on our own needs once in a while, even while working. After all, just like parenting, we cannot take care of others (clients or 3 year-olds...or clients that act like 3 year-olds) if we do not take care of ourselves.

Charisse

It's been a while, but here are mine:

-wash your hands every chance you get (you'll be shaking a lot of them!)
-for the price of a tip, you can get housekeeping in any nice business hotel to bring you bubble bath and all kinds of extra stuff--go for it!

-if you look bored, nobody will ever come to your booth; ditto if you look like you're just involved with your colleagues. Be engaged with the folks passing, say friendly hellos, move around, keep your eyes out.

meggiemoo

I've been the "booth babe" at a lot of shows. In addition to tips above:

- If you can only sit sporadically in the booth, don't sit at all. It feels much worse to sit for a few minutes and then have to stand up again than it does to remain standing.

- If you have an event right after working in the booth and no time to go back to the hotel, pack some things with you to freshen up...toothbrush, toothpaste, perfume, etc.

- Don't book every night to go out with the gang. This is a rookie mistake. You need a minimum of 1 or 2 nights where you can just go back to your room, and order room service and a movie.

- Do something nice for yourself. My boss and I have a tradition of booking massages at a nice spa our last day at the conference. Gives you something to look forward to.

- Do ask for a King bed and do specify to the hotel things like wanting a room on a low floor (less time waiting for the elevator), a room away from the elevators or vending machines (less noise), etc.

- Don't go hog-wild on the food. Just because the room you're staffing serves dessert with every meal...you don't have to eat it. Trust me, I've been there!

- Don't wear your badge outside of the conference center...it screams "I'm a visitor...Mug me!"

meggiemoo

Oh, yeah, and it IS possible to attend a conference while nursing/pumping. With the help of a very nice conference center employee, I was able to pump in a little-used bathroom away from the hubbub.

And to anyone who works for a conference company, it would be great if every conference center had a mom's room for pumping moms.

rudyinparis

Bring a bathing suit and take advantage of your hotel's pool, if there is one. I love swimming and rarely have the chance. Definitely try to move around at least a little every day--I won't even go so far as using the word "exercise" but definitely do something to keep the blood pumping. A lot of hotels have yoga "kits" that you can charge to use in your room.

And can I second Meggiemoo, only I won't say it as nicely, I'll say it with daggers shooting from eyes: Hey! Dummies! How about a decent space for women to pump, you big morons!

Tracy

Oh, pumping!
I lucked out at one show. I just nosed around the conference center til I found an unused, unlocked smaller conference room.

But they really could have a room reserved for nursing/pumping moms.

I find I feel a LOT better if I can get outside for some fresh air & sunshine on my face. At least for a few minutes a day.

Shelley

Ditto Nancy -- invest in a fatigue mat for your legs. Trade show floors are concrete, hard as a rock, and you can get the type of rubber matting they have at cashier's stations (in grocery stores, etc.) at a hardware store -- so worth the extra hassle.

Marta

At the last trade show I worked, I was at a hotel/waterpark. During the show, I took my pump and went to the Day Spa and asked nicely if I could use one of their open rooms to pump. I smiled sweetly, asked nicely, and I promised not to mess up the room at all so they would not have to clean up after me.
I pumped twice during the show that day, and there was relaxing music, dim lighting, and magazines and water. A pumping paradise!
I realize this might not be possible for everyone, but it never hurts to ask!
M.

hedra

For pumping, ask. I have yet to find a conference center that won't find a decent space with a lockable door for pumping in. Granted, I only went to big freaking conference events or ones at university campuses, but I either got somebody's office, or a small room with no windows.

Ditto on wishing they had a DESIGNATED space for this, but asking (especially ahead) did seem to get results handily. Being really direct, calm, professional, and matter of fact about it seemed to go over well. I took the attitude that they were a service industry, and that this was a service I had every right to expect (no different than asking directions to the restroom - that kind of 'approach'), it was neither unusual nor odd (no matter if they never got the request before, to ME it wasn't unusual or odd!), and I am simply waiting for you to proceed with your usual protocol for finding the space, thanks! I am also always prepared for someone to balk or look at me blankly, in which case I smile kindly, and ask if they have someone else who can help me? (That whole protocol is something I learned from my parents/step-parents, at least four of whom are masters of getting the 'system' to spring into action on their behalf.)

Sarah

Hand washing! I once did a recruiting event,and when I washed my hands before lunch I was astounded how much dirt came off in the sink!

Ann

Hedra, you are so right.
I worked in resorts/conventions here in Orlando for years. It was our job to accommodate any (reasonable) request of our guests. If you don't get the answer you want, just ask someone else. For this particular request, always better to ask a female around our age. The young guys just freak out about "girl stuff"

hedra

Ann, I found that 'grandmotherly' types were also a good bet. Though they tended to be more chatty as well (asking about the baby, asking about bfing, telling about their experiences, their kids' experiences, etc.). Some days that was really appealing - talking about something OTHER than work, even for a few moments!

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