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Mia

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Jody

First, good luck with the night-weaning thing, or at least the shortening-the-night-nursing-and-rinsing-the-baby's-mouth thing, because that's the part that would have been the biggest challenge for me, if we'd realized what was happening when our son was young enough to reverse it.

We didn't see the pediatric dentist until our son was three, because I asked our doctor about the recommendation to do it at age one and she blew that off. So I think, above all else, you should give yourself a pat on the back for making the appointment in the first place. It's not a step everyone takes. And it gives you a chance to avoid the worst-case scenario, multiple dental caries.

As for filling the cavities, should it get that far? My son, who nursed at night (for hours at a time, in stretches) until he was 29 months old, had to have two full-molar caps and three additional fillings when he was three years old. It was done under general anesthesia, because the novicaine-and-gas route is simply not appropriate for very small children. (There are dosage and compliance issues, not to mention problems with numbing a very small child's mouth.) The good news? Your child goes to sleep, has the work done, wakes up an hour later, and goes home. The bad news? It's general anesthesia. It's scary for you. But a good pediatric dentist does this routinely and it really will be okay.

Hopefully, you have caught the problem early enough to treat it and never get to the point we did. I can't imagine all that toothbrushing, but I'm hoping your child adapts quickly (there certainly must be tooth-brushing videos out there, right? in your shoes, I would ditch my normal anti-video stance for toddlers and play it often, and do anything possible to make the brushing a game) and again, I think you are WAY ahead of the game by having seen the dentist when you did. Kudos for that.

pnuts mama

moxie-
does the xylitol toothpaste need to be primarily made from that ingredient? the gerber toothpaste has that listed as it's third ingredient and i was just wondering.

i don't have much advice for cavities but i do know that one of our pnuts favorite things to teeth on is a toothbrush with one of those tongue cleaners on the back. also we received one of those "baby essentials" kits at my baby shower (you know, it has scissors, thermometer, all sorts of baby things) and it had a "baby toothbrush" that pnut loves- it looks like a regular toothbrush handle with rubber nubbies where the bristles would be, and a pacifier-shaped shield near the nubbies so the baby can't shove it too far in their throat. anyway, i put some of that toothpaste on those for her and she loves it, we are hoping it inspires some good habits later on. good luck!

Moxie

The amount they put in the baby toothpaste is fine, AFAIK. I think mostly xylitol would be too goopy and not avrasive enough to clean teeth. It's good to know that the Gerber toothpaste has it, too.

hedra

BTDT, four times now...

Sigh.

All four of my kids have dental issues. The older two have multiple fillings, and both had near-misses with root canals (that is, the cavity went down alongside the pulp instead of into it, so when they went in, they didn't have to do a root canal after all... phew!). The oldest has reflux-thinned enamel. The second has soft enamel for unknown reasons (we took him in the first time to the dentist because a small bump shattered the corner of a front tooth). REALLY soft. One of the twins has reflux, and the other fought like crazy when we brushed her front teeth (hates having her gums touch the brush) and ended up with white line that way (from what we could tell, we were getting it, but we were wrong). All of them have had bouts of mouth-breathing (bad for teeth) as well. ARGH. Fortunately, the adult teeth coming in on the oldest look like they're nice and hard, and the reflux is medicated. Even being on top of things from experience won't necessarily save your child from this... sucks, but my kids did NOT inherit my hard-as-rock teeth.

If you've got a good pediatric dentist, you'll probably have fine experiences.

We've had very encouraging and supportive technicians (each child gets the same one over and over, so they develop a rapport), and that plus topical and local anesthesia has made even multiple fillings a not-awful experience. Toothbrushing is still going to be a fight for a while - at 2 1/2 to 3 or so, they seem to start being more willing to be brushed without being pinned down, but I still have to hold them at this point (26 months) to get the job done well (brushing 2 mad 25-lb octopi... whee.).

Flossing is hit and miss, though at least with those little flossers you can buy, they're interested in doing it themselves, and the dentist doesn't ask for daily flossing (several times a week, instead).

We swab the remineralizer on with a cotton swab - they'll do it themselves at about 2, and then I do it again for them if it doesn't look like they did a good job (One note from the dentist - caries will get DARKER once they start to remineralize, so if they look worse after a week or so, you're doing it right). I'm not worried about them swallowing the amount off a cotton swab if they suck on it, either.

Other things we've learned in the process of this:

1) Salty/starchy snacks are as bad as sweet/sticky snacks, especially for around the gums and between teeth. Goldfish and pretzels... bad bad bad.

2) Solid chocolates are one of the BETTER treats for teeth.

3) Even when they can do it, you have to check and do it again for them if they didn't do it well. Until they're about ten!

4) The worst part of night nursing for their teeth may be just holding on after they're done. It is the lack of saliva movement that makes things escalate with bottle mouth, and the same is true of night nursing. There are a few studies that show that babies who hold onto the nipple all night have the worst dental issues - though anything that blocks the saliva in their mouths can make things worse.

5) Snoring, congestion, and mouth breathing make things worse, faster, so if they're sick, you can't cut them a break. (BTDT, *bad* plan... sigh.)

Good luck! Once it starts, you're in for a long fight to keep it from taking over. It is exhausting to NEVER let it slip up, and I'm afraid I'm not perfect. However, the last couple of visits with the older two (maybe 3) have been all clear for caries (okay, so their major flaw spots are already filled...). And the younger two are holding steady where they are, even though they'll both likely need one incisor filling on the front in a year or so.

I will say that it is nice to not have the dentist blame night nursing for everything... ours used to use 'mandatory cold turkey night weaning' as a scare tactic to convince extended nursing moms to get with the program. She's toned it down some, though - she now says 'night-weaning by 12 months is best for their teeth, period... but maybe that's not always best for the whole child.' It's a balancing act, for sure!

Rebecca

I have a quick question on this subject: can the amount of sugar a breastfeeding woman intakes affect the sugar content of the breastmilk? i.e. even if a child has really healthy/low refined sugar intake, could this all be thwarted by mom snacking on chocolate all day?

I hadn't really thought about this enough!

caro

Another sugar-related question. We have some Tom's of Maine kids' toothpaste (Silly Strawberry), and I don't have the ingredients in front of me but I remember being surprised that a couple of the ingredients looked to me like other names for sugar. Fructose, maybe. Or fruit juice. At the time I briefly wondered whether this was kind of a bad thing, and now all this talk about scary dental outcomes is making me wonder again how foolish I really am to be using this on my kid's teeth. Any clue?

dot

I have a 20 month old, but I don't want to give him the fruity flavored childrens toothpaste (he likes the taste of regular toothpaste, so why should i get him hooked on specialized childrens sweet toothpaste). My question is what do i need to look for in toothpaste for him if i'm not buying something like the Tom's Childrens? Just floride free with xylitol?

Kathleen

Wow ! i was told by nurses to brush my 10-month old daughter's teeth with general adult toothpaste with fluoride, a very tiny pea-size amount. Is this wrong, then ?

hedra

Kathleen, you can use a tiny amount of adult toothpaste. Some people are concerned with overal fluoride consumption (our dentist is not a fan of letting kids get too much fluoride swallowed, it can cause tooth flaw in the adult teeth, and some people consider it a toxin). The 'toddler' pastes are safe to just eat if they want to (my kids will suck the toothpaste off the brush if you let them).

Caro, I hadn't checked Tom's for fructose... argh, since Brendan and Meriel can't have fructose straight... just checked their website, and it has sorbitol. ARGH. That's another one they can't have (due to a carbohydrate intolerance). The things I never thought to check! BUT, they're *not* issues for dental hygeine - Tom's is a reputable company. I've used Tom's for ages - and my kids have equally poor results with Colgate and Tom's. Sigh.

If what you were seeing was the sucrose cocoate that's not sugar, that's like a soap/sudzing agent, I think. Nothing in there is going to feed bacteria.

Dot, I think fluoride-free with xylitol is what you'd want.

Julie

Sort of off the subject, but not really - if you have any products containing xylitol in your house (toothpaste and/or gum), PLEASE make sure to keep these products away from your pets. Dogs are especially prone to eating large quantities of xylitol-containing gum, and while their breath may be minty-fresh, their livers may go into failure. Xylitol is toxic when ingested in large amounts for members of the canine persuasion, causing severe drops in blood sugar and occasional liver failure. For more info, see: http://www.aspca.org/

Thanks - good luck with the brushing. I'm a Tom's of Maine fan, too!

Julie (a DVM from MN)

Jennifer

I've been using the finger thing for several months now and am wondering when people switched to a baby toothbrush? My daughter is now 14 months old and bites my finger like the dickens!

Scotti

I have a related question. Our water is not fluoridated and our pediatrician prescribed fluoride drops for our son starting at 6 months (he's now 11 months). This seems to be standard procedure, but I also hear murmurs about the dangers of giving fluoride supplementation. I don't want to threaten my son's teeth as he's got a genetic predisposition to cavities, but I don't want to endanger him either. I know this can be a heated argument. Can anyone direct me to information on this issue?

Charisse

Well, answering not as a parent for once...I was given fluoride supplementation as a baby because my parents went to live in Taiwan for an extended stint. Turns out I got too much, and it shows up as white mottling on some of my teeth. I believe there are worse things that can happen, but that's the most typical. On the upside, my dentist says nothing can get a purchase on my enamel. Whee.

All this is making me think I ought to get Mouse to the dentist--one more thing for the list!

Moxie

Jennifer, if she's biting your finger and it hurts, it's time to switch to a toothbrush. :-)

pnuts mama

two things i thought of:
i know i've read somewhere that some people (kids, adults) are just prone to cavities, and some are not. something to do with enzymes in the saliva, i wish i wasn't too tired to google it.

also, there is a tiny bell ringing somewhere in my head connecting some medications in infancy/early childhood with later tooth decay- the only reason i bring this up is our 11 year old nephew has had tremendous dental issues- and i do remember somewhere my sister in law had mentioned they had possibly connected it to some antibiotics he had taken earlier in life. please let me be clear, i am *not* advocating not using antibiotics when necessary (our nephew is in a house with smokers, and is constantly sick, not to mention the kid eats candy and soda all day long, so i thought it was a pretty weak excuse to blame medicine when clearly there are other factors, but i digress) i just remember the link between the two.

hedra

There's also a possible link between some heavy-hitter allergy meds and tooth flaw... I've heard antibiotics a few times, as well.

We don't know what it was, necessarily, though I did take Singulair for part of each pregnancy... it was that or cease breathing.

And yes, some people are more prone to caries than others, though a lot of that has to do with how well their mouths harbor the strep mutans bacteria.

Scotti, I don't know where to find detailed information on fluoride toxicity levels and/or tooth development, but I usually start by searching on PubMed. (.org?)

joline

When my dd was about 2 her front teeth started to chip. The first pediatric dentist I took her too took one glance (practically from across the room) and declared it "baby bottle tooth decay" and asked me if she had any pain. I said no, he said bring her back if she does, otherwise there is no reason to fix baby teeth. Now I did NOT like the man or his attitude, but I didnt think that his advice was too bad. A year or two later when I did take her to her first regular dental visit, the dentist told me there was absolutely NO decay on her front teeth, she just had very thin enamel, and there was nothign Much I could have done. She did however have cavities in her molars and needed a "pulpectomy" which is basically a pediatric root canal. They did it under "conscious sedation" for the first visit, which means she was very calm, but awake. It took maybe 15 minutes and she came out smiling and joking with the staff. They even told me they could do the next two without even using the sedation. It wasnt bad.
My youngest three havent been to the dentist yet. My current dentist suggested age 4 for the first visit. So we waited. Now my kids are 3,3, and 4 and it is about time. But unless a child develops a toothache, I see little reason to get invasive dental treatments before age 4 or so. Especially when that means general anesthesia.
As for preventing cavities. WEll, I personally think it is so enormously genetic that parents beat themselves up unnecessarily.
I think that in those pictures for example we are either looking at situations where the parent was extremely lax on dental care, or the child was overwhelmingly prone to cavities due to genetics that there was little the parents could have done.
And some parents do fight and fight a losing battle over their children's teeth, because the kids have thin enamel. Adn even when they do Everything right, the child gets cavities, and so the mandatory list gets longer and longer. But seriously, some of these dental regimens just dont seem to be worth it for such little kids and baby teeth. And it seems like a losing battle. I dont think that just because a toddler is developing cavities, he is on the downward spiral to serious cases like in the pictures.
Joline

caro

Back to the Silly Strawberry: I looked at the ingredients again last night and it was "fruit extracts" that had concerned me. Though I guess that could be just flavor without throwing any sugar into the mix? I also discovered Silly Strawberry doesn't have xylitol after all (but no sorbitol, either, hedra). So off to the co-op for a different type of Tom's...

Mellie

I read somewhere that adult saliva (as in, you pick up the pacifier off the ground and clean it off with your saliva and hand it to the baby, etc.) is a way that cavity causing bacteria are introduced into babies
mouths.

Elaine

Don't over look the MI PASTE with 6% Recaldent for those kids, no flouride in that product which is a valid concern for small children. The product is sold to the dentist, The Recladent is Claciumd and Phospahate delivered to the tooth thru a milk casein. If the child does not have a true Milk Protein allergy then this is the product to use to help reverse the white spot lesions by strengthing the enamel. Go out to GCAMERICA.COM or have the patient's dentist look over product.

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Its okay to brush your sons teeth, as long as you do it in a right way and of course with the gentle tooth paste. because baby teeth and gums is so soft and sensitive.

-heather-

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Well for me,i cant see any problem if you brush you sons teeth in the first that would be better to your son. :-)

florence

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These are the problems of the toothpaste made for babies. Scientists aren’t yet sure if the amount added to toothpaste plus the amount you get in tap water equals a hazardous dose. To be safe, we recommend that young children (who swallow more of their toothpaste) should use fluoride-free toothpastes.

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